He’s just not listening
Q I’ve been trying to talk to my husband about some issues we have. But whenever I bring something up, he changes the subject and makes it about him, negating my feelings. I then feel dismissed and put down, and nothing ever changes.
Margy, Romford
If you’ve tried something a few times and it doesn’t work, doing the same thing again won’t change the situation. You might need to find a different way to approach this, for more information.