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Impossible to please

Q My partner and I are constantly arguing. He's always been controlling and insecure but it's got so hard to please him.

I moved to another city to be with him but I feel he doesn't appreciate it.

I ended up having an affair with my neighbour. I feel guilty but at the same time I want more.

Please help.

Danielle, 34

A I need you to know that this relationship sounds abusive. He's controlling and he's isolated you.

Completely toxic behaviour, sweetheart. You need to walk away now, while you still can.

Go back to your support network, family and friends, and forget all

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