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Military spouses often feel overwhelmed and alone. A new pilot program aims to help

These parents face obstacle after obstacle — from struggling to secure a job to finding child care — because they constantly uproot their families as military assignments change.
Kayla Doble, her husband Maj. Brandon Doble and their children (left) and Scot Shumski, his wife Capt. Promotable Julia Flores and their children (right). (Courtesy of Kayla Doble and Scot Shumski)

Day-to-day instability is pushing many spouses of active-duty military members to a breaking point.

Even women who grew up in military families, as self-described Army and Navy brats, say they did not realize what they were signing up for when they began to juggle the pressures of life as a military partner.

They face obstacle after obstacle — from struggling to secure a job to finding child care — because they constantly uproot their families as military assignments change.

When Elisa Borah’s husband was deployed to Iraq for 15 months in 2006, she juggled caring for her two young children alone while also attending graduate school.

“I did my best to find close

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