Help! Why can’t I orgasm?
Q When my late husband was alive, we had great sex and I never needed to use any kind of sex toy. After he passed I was single for 15 years, then met my current partner whom I love very much. But with him, I can’t reach orgasm without the help of a vibrator. He’s relaxed about this, but I feel so guilty. Does it mean my partner’s less important to me than my husband was?
SUSAN SAYS
A Not orgasming with your partner is almost certainly not due to your caring for him less than you cared for your husband. More likely is that you were younger when you were married,
