Help! I have a dirty-talk fetish
Q It turns me on when my partner talks dirty. But what really makes me hot is when he talks dirty in a foreign language. His mum is Italian and his dad is Polish, so he speaks those languages as well as English – and I love him to mix up all three. But surely I should be responsive to the language I know best? Please tell me I’m not weird.
SUSAN SAYS
A You’re not weird! Yes, a language we’re familiar with will push our sexual buttons. But just as a different foreplay move or different sexual position can bring extra spice to lovemaking, so different words – and languages –
