Psychologies

THE gentle TOUCH

With 12 fresh months stretching out ahead in 2023, it’s tempting for me to imagine that this time next year I could be considerably leaner, stronger, and fitter than I am now. A living, breathing before-and-after picture. An inspiration to all.

Many of us have jogged down that road… setting ambitious goals that require a considerable and regular commitment to achieve, and then abandoning them because it’s all too much to fit in. Or, conversely, you achieved the big goal you set yourself and then found your motivation disappeared once the target was reached. However, there is another way – the gentle resolution.

This is where you give yourself a break, rein it in, and scale down your ambitions. A cop-out? No. Not only is it more likely that you will achieve your aims – giving yourself a mood boost in the process – research shows it can be more effective than going hell for leather with your fitness goals.

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