Sue Tappenden is a coach and people expert who helps her clients improve their relationship with themselves and others. (www.headspaceforchange.com)
Feeling the pinch
Q My family wants to do a Secret Santa this year with a limit of £50 but I have no money at all. I don’t want to have to tell them the truth – should I still play along? Georgina, Burford
A If you play along, the consequences
