IS AFTERCARE THE NEW FOREPLAY?

ONE NIGHT four years ago, I inhaled and exhaled on command, like you do in yoga, as my partner inserted a vibrating butt plug into my behind. Anal play requires a lot of prep and attention; we began with fingers, used plenty of lube, and practiced relaxation techniques. When I came my face off solely from anal penetration, what happened next surprised me. I felt vulnerable. I needed some good old-fashioned cuddling to make up for the intensity of what my body had just experienced.

Thankfully, my partner knew that I was having sub drop, a term for the crash