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Curiosity

ugged by a burning question? You’re not alone. Seeking answers to the and can clarify doubts which hinder acquiring valuable knowledge. , you say. Yes but there’s a positive rejoinder to this Never lose this curiosity; it drives creativity, which lends itself to having the desire to improve. When you tumble into adulthood, curiosity matures. Now it can simply be asking someone to describe their day. Process scientists label it as reciprocal self-disclosure that promotes a deeper engagement between both parties. Curiosity stems from the strong desire to know or learn something for self-improvement and decipher complex matters. Without it, everyone is stuck in their comfort zone by taking everything at face value. This constrains adaptability. The University of Rochester’s Edward Deci argues that curiosity reflects our intrinsic motivation: “to seek out novelty and challenges, to extend and exercise one’s capacities, to explore, and to learn”. We use it not just to avoid discomfort but to generate positive experiences. One aspect is joyous exploration–being consumed with discovering the world’s fascinating features. Gain wisdom by reading about how people become successful and stay at the top of their game. Take a chance by listening to music produced by an unknown independent musician or tasting uncommon cuisines.

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