“I define myself as the winning sperm and I am proud of not just who I am, but what I am—a wonderful, strong human with so much love to give. As a child, I was fearless, in complete control of how I saw myself, and knew undoubtedly who I was. I just lacked the vocabulary to articulate it. But with puberty and the imposed gendered rules of society came about a dysphoria—what I felt and what I was
