You met Mr Right. You fell in love, adjusted to his quirks and found your relationship groove. But once you have a baby, things move on, and you both learn (on the job) to care for her. Stress levels soar, energy levels dip, grudges form (why does he never hear that 2am cry?) and tempers flare. Your first year as parents presents the biggest threat a relationship will ever face, according to research. But there are positives, too. “Your love for your baby is an extension of your love for each other,” says Christine Northam, a counsellor who lives in the UK. “If you adapt, the experience
