STEP 1
TALK TO YOUR PARTNER
Having a baby is usually a couple’s decision. If it’s a planned pregnancy, you need to discuss things such as affordability, timing and spacing of future siblings, child-care and work options. If this is your first baby, you should also discuss your parenting beliefs and possible support systems. You should both go for a medical check-up, so problems can be detected (and treated) early to avoid unnecessary stress and disappointment.
Trying to conceive can be stressful. For the first few tries, just enjoy yourself and don’t be pedantic about having sex on ovulation – this can