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Learning to embrace my family’s differences too

WHEN MY HUSBAND AND I FIRST MOVED TO NORTH CAROLINA, we were invited to join an interracial couples’ group at our church. We were surprised, declined and then privately rolled our eyes at how we’d been misread. Although I am Black and my husband isn’t, we didn’t see ourselves as interracial. We are both Latinx and identify as people of color.

In our families, our lineages are complex, questions of how our people identify

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