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An Author Confronts Her Rapist In 'Things We Didn't Talk About When I Was A Girl'

Jeannie Vanasco was raped by a long-time friend. In her new memoir, she recounts approaching the man years later to ask if he will talk with her about it --- and the conversations that result.

Many of the allegations of sexual assault and rape that received widespread media coverage in the past few years have involved men in positions of power — producers, high-powered comedians, America's one-time favorite TV dad — accused of coercing, pressuring, or outright assaulting women who were beholden to them in some way.

According to anti-sexual violence organization , 8 out of 10 rapes are committed by someone the victim knows. This can include people in romantic relationships, even marriages. But what

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