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I Can’t Believe You Didn’t Leave Me: How a Working Mom Learned to Show Up

I Can’t Believe You Didn’t Leave Me: How a Working Mom Learned to Show Up by Colleen Hauk. Photograph of house in autumn, under a maple tree by Scott Webb

Over-stress at work can make its way back to your home, acting through you and at your loved ones. Learn how to separate the two and return home with love.

It’s 3 o’clock in the morning as I slide out of bed after only four hours of sleep. I quietly get ready for work using only a single light in the bathroom, hoping not to wake my husband, Matt. Without saying good morning or giving kisses to my three children — Jordan, Ethan and Reese — I grab my lunch and workbag, making my way into the car. The highway, which should be filled with the typical southern California traffic, is deserted this early in the morning. 

I arrive at the Starbuck’s

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