Welcome to the MarriageToday Podcast! Jimmy and Karen Evans here, and in this episode, we're tackling a question many of us grapple with: what to do when you love your spouse but don't particularly like them. Get ready for a candid conversation as we share our personal insights on navigating those moments. We emphasize that it's okay to have times when you're not best buddies, but it shouldn't shake your commitment to the marriage. Join us as we delve into controlling emotions, the distinction between liking and loving, and the power of agape love. Stick around for a special mention of our book, the 'I Will' Devotional, and details on counseling services available through xomarriage.com/help
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Takeaways

It is normal to have times when you don't like your spouse, but it should not affect your behavior or commitment to the marriage.

Controlling emotions is crucial in maintaining a loving relationship with your spouse.

Liking someone and loving them are not the same thing; agape love goes beyond emotions.

The I Will Devotional and counseling services are resources available to help couples navigate challenges in their marriage.

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Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Question
00:35 The Real World of Marriage
01:31 Loving Your Neighbor
02:01 Dealing with Dislike
03:00 Controlling Emotions
04:27 Actions vs. Feelings
05:23 The Arrogance of Not Liking
06:22 Commitment in Marriage
07:20 Agape Love
08:17 The Naivety of Expecting Perpetual Like
09:45 Sustaining Love
10:43 The I Will Devotional and Counseling
12:13 Closing
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