OP is getting married and really wants her absent dad to be there. He promised he would but then later told OP he booked a concert for the same day as her wedding and wouldn't be able to go but would send a gift. OP doesn't want the gift she wants him to be there, so she tells him that if he doesn't go to her wedding, she's cutting contact with him.Check my coffee brand - Smiley Face Coffee, at https://smileyface.coffee