On this week’s episode of Well, Now’s ditching the flowers and grand romantic gestures we often see on Valentine’s Day.
There’s tons of research about how loving relationships contribute to wellness, as well as how lacking those relationships can play a part in adverse health outcomes. But what if our entire understanding of love is misguided? 
Kavita and Maya talk with relationship expert Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh about what she says are the six components for creating real, long-lasting intimate relationships. Her latest book is called Love By Design: Six Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love.
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Podcast production by Vic Whitley-Berry with editorial oversight by Alicia Montgomery.
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