Biological mom Abi and step-mom Katy are choosing to "family" for the sake of their children. Katy met Will on a dating app and learned that he had 4 kids (ages 8, 8, 5, and 3).  There can be a lot of stigmas around divorce and the relationship between the biological mom and the biological father's new partner. Abi talks about meeting her ex-husbands new parter, Katy, for the first time and how she instantly felt a connection and how they were able to build trust.  During the episode, Abi reads a letter she wrote to her ex-husbands new partner when she first got divorced. Abi and Katy discuss their relationship and how they choose to co-parent. In this episode, Katy and Abi get practical about:Being a united front in both householdsHow Katy asked really great questions about parenting stylesExpectations around screen time and disciplineCommunication and how Abi doesn't mind being the "bad guy" when it comes to disciplineInvolving grandparents and in-laws Katy owns a farm called Sticky Holler Farm in Arkansas. She's on Instagram as @stickyhollerfarm.  Support the showConnect with Lina on @linaforrestal on InstagramFollow the @newmamaspodcast on InstagramRead Lina's Blog: www.linaforrestal.comSupport the Show: Buy Me a Coffee (https://www.buymeacoffee.com/newmamaspodcast)