In this spirited episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with Derek Kage, fresh off his Xbiz Win for Gay Performer of the Year and Best Newcomer at the GayVN Awards. The pair bond over bourbon, talk about the cruel and sometimes uncomfortable side of adulthood. Derek's journey touches on various topics, from basking in newfound career success to personal struggles and powerful stories of overcoming toxic relationships.As conversations flow smoothly from bourbon tasting to heartfelt revelations, Derek shares his history with burning ambition and the trials he faced while forging his path to happiness and acclaim in the adult industry. Despite his triumphs, he retains a sense of humility and a cautious approach to his newfound fame, knowing too well the pitfalls of arrogance. The episode also delves into the broader social issues surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, highlighting the importance of authentic representation, overcoming prejudice, and the value of personal journeys in shaping who we are.Anecdotes of wild experiences at Folsom Street Fair in Berlin offer a glimpse into the diverse and vibrant culture of gay communities. Whether it's exchanging travel tales, dissecting societal misconceptions, or just sharing life philosophies over drinks, Matt and Derek Kage generate an engaging conversation worth the listen, weaving insight with a healthy dose of humor     New Sponsor Alert! Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink