Kids Need Both Affection and Authority

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Kids Need Both Affection and Authority

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At the heart of good parenting is a balance between authority and affection. In this we imitate our heavenly Father's relationship with us. Is your parenting reflecting these two aspects?To read the original blog post, visit https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/children-need-affection-authority/

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Sep 12, 2023

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In these short episodes of 5 to 10 minutes, Chap Bettis reads some of his most popular blog posts for your convenience. You will be equipped for family discipleship!

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Kids Need Both Affection and Authority

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