"I'm single but tbh I'm not looking for anything serious. I'm really working on myself right now." UGH! We've all heard it. But have we interrogated it? What can we do when we meet someone we really want to be there for who isn't really into dating? Meet local man Alex Clewis, and goalie for Napa Valley 1839 FC. He's my boyfriend's teammate and a stand up salesman who is recovering from serial monogamy! Our convo opens up a lot of topics men/women don't voice aloud. Enjoy!   Follow the show on all podcast platforms:  https://www.datingunsettled.com/ IG: https://instagram.com/datingunsettled TikTok: tiktok.com/@datingunsettled Twitter: https://twitter.com/datingunsettled Be sure to like & subscribe to my newsletter! You can join my mailing list at https://joyofodu.komi.io/