Anneke is a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist from Oregon who is a long-time VBAC Link Podcast listener. During her first pregnancy, she would listen to 5+ hours of episodes commuting back and forth from work! Anneke was more than committed to having a vaginal birth with each of her pregnancies, but what she has learned from her births about advocacy, trust, and defining success are beautiful lessons that have changed her forever.At The VBAC Link, we are here to help you achieve your goals of a vaginal birth. But even more importantly, we are here to advocate for empowered decision-making in the birth space. Anneke is an inspiring example of being educated, strong, and finding healing within circumstances that were out of her control.“Since my first birth, I’ve asked, ‘Why? Why not me? Why does this keep happening and why can’t I just be like so many others on the podcast and so many others across the country? Why can’t I just will it into being?’ From these questions, I’m starting to believe that my story actually might begin at the end. I’ve realized that maybe my story isn’t about the mechanism of birth at all, but what it birthed in me which was the ability to see my own strength.”Additional LinksThe Lactation Network WebsiteHow to VBAC: The Ultimate Prep Course for ParentsFull Transcript under Episode Details Meagan: Hello, hello. Wherever you are listening from, welcome to The VBAC Link. We have three beautiful stories for you today. They are all unique. They all have certain things along the way that add some unique factors. We have our friend Anneke. I keep questioning that, but it’s Anneke and she has had three Cesareans. Her Cesareans really all have been a little bit different and for different reasons. We’ve got IVF. We’ve got low fluid and we have breech presentation. I’m excited to share your stories or have you share your stories today, but as always, we love starting our podcast out with a review. Review of the WeekToday’s reviewer is from a girl named Megan. It says, “Great resource.” It says, “Such a great resource for VBAC mamas to come and listen to women’s stories and get great evidence-based practice information. I do wish these ladies would do a little less interrupting of the storytellers.” Well, I’m so sorry, Megan. We definitely do jump in so hopefully, Anneke, you don’t feel too interrupted. But we do like to be a part of your story as well because we want you to share your story, but we are listening and we are listening for the first time. We are reacting as if someone else would react the first time they are listening, right? So yeah. Thank you, Megan, for your review. We do love your reviews as always. Seriously, anywhere you listen– Apple Podcasts or Google. You can email us. Write us on Instagram. Let us know what your review is because we would love to read it on the next podcast. Anneke’s StoriesMeagan: Okay, Ms. Anneke. Welcome to the show. Anneke: Thank you. Meagan: Thank you for being here and sharing these stories. I just want to turn the time over to you and have you share away and educate these listeners. Anneke: Awesome, well I am a long-time listener of your podcast actually. I think I found your podcast before I gave birth to my first child. Meagan: Oh really? Anneke: Yeah. I was doing 5-hour drives. I am a pelvic floor physical therapist. Meagan: Oh yes. I wanted to talk about that too by the way at the end. Don’t let me forget. Anneke: Well, I was contracted to work where I am actually working now. It was a 5.5-hour drive. I would go down once a month and treat patients so I would listen to 5.5 hours of your podcast. Meagan: You would get through quite a few episodes. Anneke: Yeah. Lots of episodes. I always had this dream that I would be able to come on The VBAC Link with this triumphant VBAC– well, with this triumphant story. I never expected to have a Cesarean. I don’t think anybody ever does. But after I had my first, I was like, “Okay. My goal is to someday be on The VBAC Link w