Second-time guest Neil Rubenstein tells us that we need to invest time to build trust to tell more personal jokes with an audience. Neil brings to the Art of Bombing podcast a ton of experience - he’s opened for a twelve-year-old catchphrase comic, and he’s been sandwiched between two 90’s era pop bands. These things have made him the to-the-point comic he is today.Neil believes it’s important to have relationships, ask for help, and use humility in our careers, but equally as important is the confidence and awareness to take responsibility for your successes. Dan Bublitz Jr jams with Neil about his past family trauma shaping his comedy, setting expectations with adjacent-show bookers, calibrating expectations depending on your show, and the differences between stand-up comedy and other art forms.Sponsored by https://www.puxhub.com/: Hey bomb squad if you're a comedian or podcaster looking for an affordable website solution with a modern look then we recommend PuxHub! With a PuxHub website, you can set up your new website in minutes with easy-to-use prebuilt templates. PuxHub websites are customizable and easily integrated with IG, TikTok, and Twitter platforms. The best part, PuxHub plans are only $5 per month! We use PuxHub for our website, and we think you should too and that's why we've partnered with PuxHub to offer listeners a free 60-trial! Head over to PuxHub.com to subscribe and use promo code "AOBPOD" at check out for your 60-day free trial and then pay only $5 per month after that. Take your career to the next level with your own PuxHub website today!The Gig Diary: https://www.amazon.com/Gig-Diary-Record-Musicians-Audiences/dp/B0C9S8P639Neil RubensteinComedian Neil Rubenstein is a burly, tattooed guy who plays against type; kind, and cerebral, but still casually mentions past illegal activities (running a poker room, owning a brothel, etc.) the way one might reference a Renaissance Lit course you took in college.https://neilrubenstein.comhttps://www.facebook.com/ItsNeilRubensteinhttps://www.instagram.com/neilrubensteinArt of Bombing:"Nobody Had a Podcast Called The Art of Bombing" Theme by John HultBumpers provided by Joe Nicola MusicWebsite: https://www.artofbombingpod.com/Merch: https://art-of-bombing-pod.creator-spring.com/Buy us a coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/aobpodFB: https://www.facebook.com/artobpodcast/Twitter: @artofbombingpodInstagram: @artofbombingpodTwitch: @artofbombingpodYouTube: Art of Bombing PodcastDan Bublitz Jr: http://www.danbublitz.com/Josh Shirley: http://www.joshshirleycomedy.com