Reddit Stories | OP, who had a more adventurous and fun-filled lifestyle before marriage, met his wife, who has a completely opposite lifestyle. Despite their differences, they initially found balance and had a passionate relationship. However, over time, they settled into a monotonous, vanilla routine. The OP expressed his desire for more excitement, asking his wife to engage in physical activities together, occasionally dress up, and be more open to spontaneity, like having a few drinks on a weekday. He believes these changes could reignite their passion. However, his wife responded by saying these requests go against her core being, and she can't change who she is. The OP questions whether his requests are unreasonable, feeling that they are essential for maintaining a spark in their marriage.