When we carry parts of our past with us, they still affect us today. You may know there is something going on, but not know what it is. You may sense your spouse has something they are carrying or you might be affected by unresolved conflict in your shared past. Today Dr. Kim shares how these things shape our marriage relationships and what we can do about them. Episode highlights include:   Ever been picked last at recess? Yeah, us too. But do things like that matter in our marriages?  Why aren’t we dealing with this stuff already?  What happens if we don’t deal with our past hurt Is it okay to talk about our spouse’s baggage if they don’t bring it up?  We pray this episode is helpful to you and your marriage.  Subscribe to Podcast Email to make sure you never miss an episode. When you sign up, you will get our 4 Week Connection Challenge for free! Plus you will get noteworthy quotes, resources, and more delivered straight to your inbox.   *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    RESOURCES 44 Tips to Better Sex in Marriage: Sexual Intimacy Cheat Sheet This is the FB Live video with Chris and Jamie Bailey that we referred to dealing with Emotional Rationalization  As promised! Here are some Scriptures that speak to the things we addressed today:   Colossians 2:6-10  Ephesians 4:20-24  John 16:33 James 1:2-5