185: How to Be Miserable

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185: How to Be Miserable

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84 minutes

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Aug 29, 2023

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David & Mike discuss the satirical self-help book How to Be Miserable by Randy J. Paterson and share the dysfunctional skills they are particularly good at.

Released:

Aug 29, 2023

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Podcast episode

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David Sparks and Mike Schmitz are not nearly as productive as they’d like to be. Join these fellow travelers (and a bunch of special guests) as they share the best ways to get focused, and talk though their successes and failures along the way. Hosted by David Sparks and Mike Schmitz.

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185: How to Be Miserable

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