This episode brings some of the very best conversations from our recent New Counselor Academy, where we brought together a group of school counselors who are in their early years of practice, sharing insights on everything from managing unrealistic expectations to avoiding the savior complex. You'll hear some surprising thoughts on the importance of creating connections and how these relationships can be an effective tool in reducing dysregulation on campus. Learn from the experiences of those who have worked with the toughest students and gain tips on fostering relationships with reluctant students... as well as administrators. In the second half of this episode, we discuss the subtle art of advocacy and patience. Listen to stories of how fostering relationships with stakeholders could grant you a seat at the table rather than aggressive lobbying. We discuss why patience, often underrated in our profession, is key. You'll hear why you should NEVER let your data define you as a counselor. And I wrap up the episode with a light-hearted story about my first day as school counselor that you will COMPLETELY identify with- you may even giggle out loud!Whether you're an experienced school counselor or just starting out, this episode is sure to inspire and enlighten you. *********************Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.Hang out in our Facebook groupJump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors MastermindThe Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!Connect --> schoolforschoolcounselors.com Support the show