Matis Miller, LCSW joins us to chat about raising kids in this age and his book "The Uncontrollable Child".  We chat about the difficulty with raising kids, all the distractions, ADHD,  and the emotional health needs of kids.  The most important job in the world has loads of info on how to do it but Matis's book dials right into practical tools on how to be present, listen, respond and help your child get through those challenges with safety and support.   We also chat about the importance of mindfulness, awareness, validation, acceptance, limit setting and the balance of consistency and flexibility. This is advice anyone can use in business or day to day relationships....   In the second half we chat about positive reinforcement, the 12 year old my body my choice, opposing truths, political learning,  DBT/CBT, so many lines being crossed, society at large, trauma, seeing the truth over both perspectives, dealing with people who may have borderline personality disorder, if or how to get out of those relationships, regulating emotions and the last 10-15 years with the increase in mindfulness training for kids.   https://theuncontrollablechild.com/   See links to some of the stuff we chatted about during the show:   https://www.gottman.com/   https://drdansiegel.com/books/   https://psychcentral.com/lib/loving-someone-with-borderline-personality-disorder#1   Thank you for your support.  To gain access to the second half of show and our Plus feed please clink the link http://www.grimericaoutlawed.ca/support. Help support the show because without your help we can’t continue to address these controversial topics. If you value this content with 0 ads, 0 sponsorships, 0 breaks, 0 portals and links to corporate websites, please assist. Many hours of unlimited content for free. Thanks for listening!! Support the show directly: https://www.patreon.com/grimericaoutlawed Get your Magic Mushrooms delivered from: Mushroom Spores, Spore Syringes, Best Spore Syringes,Grow Mushroom Spores Lab Other affiliated shows: https://www.13questionspodcast.com/ Our New Podcast - 13 Questions www.grimerica.ca The OG Grimerica Show Join the chat / hangout with a bunch of fellow Grimerican’s  www.grimerica.ca/chats   1-403-702-6083 Call and leave a voice mail or send us a text   GrimericaFM https://s2.radio.co/s053ed3122/listen Check out our next trip/conference/meetup - Contact at the Cabin www.contactatthecabin.com   Leave a review on iTunes and/or Stitcher: https://itunes.apple.com/ca/podcast/grimerica-outlawed http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/grimerica-outlawed Sign up for our newsletter http://www.grimerica.ca/news SPAM Graham = and send him your synchronicities, feedback, strange experiences and psychedelic trip reports!! graham@grimerica.com InstaGRAM https://www.instagram.com/the_grimerica_show_podcast/    Tweet Darren https://twitter.com/Grimerica   Connect through other platforms: https://www.reddit.com/r/grimerica/  https://gab.ai/Grimerica    Purchase swag, with partial proceeds donated to the show www.grimerica.ca/swag Send us a postcard or letter http://www.grimerica.ca/contact/ ART Napolean Duheme's site http://www.lostbreadcomic.com/  MUSIC Hyper Drive Felix’s Site sirfelix.bandcamp.com