In the last solo, I talked about the dangers of seeking “the one” and making your partner your everything. So how do we avoid falling into that trap? Discover mode, and in this episode I’m going deeper on what that means and how to do it.

In this episode of Open Late

So what is discovery mode?

The importance of setting common and independent goals

Creating mystery in long term relationships 

Using time apart to strengthen the relationship 

Being intentional with building community


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Resources:
Check out episode 18: The Danger of “The One”
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