So. Your partner refuses to do the work alongside you, and it’s driving you crazy. Have you considered that maybe, just maybe, they’re not doing this to piss you off? I’ve talked about this before, but doing the work fucking sucks. It’s hard. It requires you to delve into places you might’ve kept locked up for years and years…maybe even since childhood. It takes a lot for a person to decide they need to do that work on their own, and it’s even less likely that they’re going to decide to do it because someone else is nagging them to. There are ways to get your partner to do the work, but there are also plenty of ways you can do it all wrong. Let me tell you the best way to get your partner interested in doing the work with you.   CONNECT WITH MICHELLE: Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/michellepanning Website: http://www.michellepanning.com   EPISODE RESOURCES: Sign up for Swipe Right, a six-week program for women who want to date like motherfucking queens: https://michellepanning.com/swipe-right