On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Vanessa and Xander Marin. We talk about how to keep the sexual spark alive, how to initiate properly, the right way to turn your partner down, how to ask for exactly what you want, telling your partner you don’t like something sexually, positive reinforcement, the 5 conversations every couple needs to increase intimacy and connection, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss what you can change about your SO, going through a partner’s phone, and feeling strange post engagement.    Buy Sex Talks!   Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.   Sponsors: Indochino.com code ACME for 10% off a showroom appointment or order Drinklmnt.com/acme to claim your free LMNT sample pack Prose.com/acme for a FREE in-depth hair consultation and 15% off your first order Visit seed.com/ACME code ACME to redeem 25% off your first month of Seed's DS-01® Daily Synbiotic   Produced by Dear Media.