It's Caller Day and today we're joined by two lovely callers! We're joined by our first ever caller COUPLE (!), Barbie and Ken. They plan to secretly elope even though Ken's mother has explicitly asked them not to. Should they alter their plans to avoid future friction, or do what feels true to them and let the chips fall where they may? Caller Elana a very relatable Am-I-The-Asshole question involving her best friend. Where's the middle ground when you both think you're in the right? Listen on for the Shandy take!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 25% off your first order!- Try 5 pairs of glasses at home for free at https://www.warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://www.hellofresh.com/SHANDY16 and use code SHANDY16 for 16 free meals plus free shipping!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Callers Barbie & Ken!12:09 - Shandy Speaks31:27 - Shandy Debrief40:21 - Welcome To Caller Elana!59:51 - Shandy Speaks1:09:41- Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSupport Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy