The Art of the Set-Up

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The Art of the Set-Up

FromLooking For The Middle: The Christian’s Guide to Modern Dating

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Apr 26, 2023

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Whether you’re the one being set up, or the one doing the setting up… we’ve been on both sides of this delicate topic and we’re talking about the whole process from start to finish from both sides!

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Apr 26, 2023

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The Christian Girl's Guide To Modern Dating.

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The Art of the Set-Up

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