The Ultimatum

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The Ultimatum

FromREALationships Podcast

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54 minutes

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Mar 30, 2023

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Released:

Mar 30, 2023

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Devon is a positive psychology instructor at the University of Pennsylvania. He specializes in dyadic relationships, including romantic relationships and parenting. Asha is a certified relationship coach with a specialization in dating, marriage, and separation issues. Together, they provide evidence-based interventions to improve relationship/marriage satisfaction.

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Going The Distance: Are you struggling to keep your relationship a float because the miles between you and your lover? Whether your required to take a boat or plane being in a long distance relationship is a lot of work. In this episode we share the details on how we... by REALationships Podcast
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How Long Is Too Long: What's up Real Ones! After receiving a message from one of our Real Ones about this topic we thought it would be interesting to discuss and get your feedback on how long is too long to wait for marriage? Some people believe that 6 to 12 months is... by REALationships Podcast
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Making Marriage Work with The Gottmans: What's Up Real Ones! In this episode we had the opportunity to sit down with John and Julie Gottman and discuss the key principles of Dr. Gottman's book The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work. The gems they're dropping will surely help your... by REALationships Podcast
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Who Do You Turn To?: What's up Real Ones?! In this episode we are exploring one of the many principles we learned from reading, Dr. John Gottman's book "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work". We discuss the acts of turning towards or turning away from your... by REALationships Podcast
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5 Love Languages with Gary Chapman: What's Up Real Ones! Most of us have heard of the 5 Love Languages, and for those who haven't, you're in for a real treat! In this episode we had the pleasure to speak with the creator and author of the 5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman. We dive deep... by REALationships Podcast
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Gorilla Glue: What's Up Real Ones! I'm sure we have all heard about the tragic incident where a young lady thought it was a bright idea to put gorilla glue in her hair. Although we don't recommend using glue as a hair spray substitute, we thought this episode would... by REALationships Podcast
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Worth A Ring Or Just A Fling?: If you like it, then you shoulda put a ring on it! In today's episode we're discussing how to determine if the person you're dating is worth building a future with, or just a booty call! by REALationships Podcast
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Welcome Back!: WELCOME BACK! What's Up Real Ones?! We've been gone for a minute but we are back and excited to talk to you all again! In this episode we discuss the reason why we took such a long hiatus. We are also dropping some very important gems that will... by REALationships Podcast
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I Cheated: After months of contemplating if we wanted to discuss this topic, we decided to put our pride to the side and talk about the impact cheating had on our relationship and how it almost ended our marriage. Join our Patreon for exclusive content -... by REALationships Podcast
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After The Baby: What's Up Real Ones?! In this episode we discuss how important it is to spend quality time with your partner after having a baby. Most couples experience some form of neglect in their relationship after having their first born because the relationship... by REALationships Podcast
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You Got Questions, We've Got Answers: What's up Real Ones! We decided to dedicate this episode to you, as promised. We receive so many questions asking for advice on how to get over an ex, dealing with a long distance relationship, to how to spice up a dwindling relationship. After going... by REALationships Podcast
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Blended Family Challenges: In this episode we dive deep into a much needed discussion about blended families. We give our experience on the good, bad, and everything in between! Join our Patreon for exclusive content - https://www.patreon.com/realationshipspodcast by REALationships Podcast
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I'm Not Over It: What's Up Real Ones! Have you ever caught yourself arguing with your partner over something that happened months or even years ago? If so, you're not alone. In this episode we discuss why it's so important to resolve those issues (big or small)... by REALationships Podcast
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