In addition to being one a America's top entertainment reporters, Rob Shuter is a best selling 'self help' authors and a respected expert in change, habits and happiness. 
Only you have the power to decide when a new chapter starts and when an old chapter ends. It’s your life, so if you find yourself in the wrong story or not enjoying the plot, change it. Never forget that you get to decide if you are going to play the villain or the hero. Watering dead plants is exhausting, and it never brings them back to life. So instead, close that chapter and start a new one.
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