Parenting and punishment

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Parenting and punishment

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Mar 3, 2023

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“My dad beat me.” How the physical punishment of a child changed the lives of a Nigerian family forever. Behaviour which was the norm for a mother who grew up in Nigeria was treated as assault in the UK.
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Mar 3, 2023

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