Grab your dog and plan a dog walk or two.  Better yet, sit down, grab pen and paper and take notes. This episode is long and chock-full of wisdom. Here are just some of the things Haley of @paws.andreflect talk about:Why  we choose to train the behaviors we trainChoice points: recognizing what you’re feeling and choosing to do something about it in a healthy and productive way rather than letting your feelings ruin your day.(What Haley describes are actually techniques you will learn in coaching with me as well).Choosing the metrics you use to measure success: the recovery time after a reaction rather than if your dog reactsKnowing who to trust as a trainer with all the contradictory advice out thereWhen is good good enough?The law of diminishing marginal returnsWhat giving your dog freedom meansBut also:Positive punishment and how to have respectful conversations with people who have different views and opinionsTaking the leap to become a full-time self-employed writer about all things dogImposter syndrome and the nagging question of “Am I  good enough?”Embarking on van life and the thought process behind itFind Haley, her husband Sean, their van Hermes and their blue heeler Scout here:https://pawsandreflect.blog/https://www.instagram.com/paws.andreflect/https://podcasts.apple.com/nl/podcast/paws-and-reflect/id1645967746https://open.spotify.com/show/1Eu3BJt11SLdDeALOd6RVq?si=07654b34d5fd4832Episode website:https://kajsavanoverbeek.com/027-haley-scout-and-sean-on-finding-out-where-you-and-your-dog-fit-in-the-dogworld/