You have to be in control of yourself, otherwise someone else will have control over you. It enhances your courage, contains your anger, and helps you block out the negative people all around you. Self control is not controlling others, most who think they have to control others don't have control of themselves. You can’t control the wind, but you can certainly direct the sails, so sail onward toward success and have self control over yourself and your life. Own your power with this Success Tip.