I met Tom Grissinger online more than 20 years ago.  We had initially considered dating but that didn't work out.  We remained friends over these many years.In this episode, he discusses the  rather unique grieving process he used in dealing with the unexpected death of his partner Kelly Turner.We bounce around on many topics, including why he chose to father four children for four lesbian couples, some crazy dating stories and why he's so obsessed with game shows (and how he managed to successfully go on so many of them).Lastly, he chats about his latest ventures in writing plays and storytelling.Tom lives with his husband Andy Kelchner and they spend time between their homes in Oakland and Palm Springs.Contact Tom via email: tgriss@gmail.comPhoto: Copyright Wilkinson/2022Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com