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The Cost of Isolation With Ex-Skinhead, Graham Finochio

The Cost of Isolation With Ex-Skinhead, Graham Finochio

FromThe Man Enough Podcast


The Cost of Isolation With Ex-Skinhead, Graham Finochio

FromThe Man Enough Podcast

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Length:
58 minutes
Released:
Nov 7, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Community becomes more important than ideology when you feel completely alone. 
We’re joined by former skinhead turned feminist activist, Graham Finochio, to talk about the radicalization of young, isolated men, how the prison system fails men and how being called in to accountability and community can create radical acceptance and change. Orphaned at 14, Graham shares stories of his upbringing, his lack of support and community, his radicalization during homlessness and the program, Success Stories, that challenged his ideologies and changed his heart during his final days in prison. 

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About Graham Finochio: 
Graham Finochio is an community organizer and Success Stories Coach Coordinator helping people who have done harm to others, create a more peaceful world through feminism. Graham was formerly incarcerated at Deuel Vocational Institute in Tracy, California and spent around 20 years of his life in and out of the prison industrial system. He came home in February of 2019 and is a coach at three prisons in the central valley and multiple reentry programs in Southern California.

SHOW NOTES
03:18- Introducing Graham Finnochio
07:32 - Graham's Story
12:03 - The "System" is Flawed and Designed to Lure in Lost Souls
13:56 - Success Stories, Prison Feminist Program
17:17 - Graham Was Confronted About His Beliefs
22:17 - To Create Change, Graham Had to Challenge Everything
26:42 - Graham's Message to Young Men 
34:40 - Liz’s Experience With Pack Mentality 
47:58 - The Biggest Lesson Graham Learned

Key Quotes from the Episode: 

“Is this working for you?” - Graham 

“My favorite people on the planet are people that have been broken, and are transformative…that means you’ve done work.” - Jamey

“Objectifying women in society is a way to prove that you are a man.“ – Liz

“You can’t idealize love.” - Graham 


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Released:
Nov 7, 2022
Format:
Podcast episode

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What does it mean to be a man in the world today? More importantly, what does it mean to be human? Actor, director and author Justin Baldoni, prominent masculinity expert Liz Plank, and award-winning music producer & President of Wayfarer Studios Jamey Heath engage in honest and at times uncomfortable conversations with high profile and culture-leading guests.  Armed with candor and compassion, each episode covers how the messages of masculinity show up in relationships, body image, privilege, fatherhood, sex, and success. If you’re interested in learning in real time, deepening your connection with yourself and others, and being reminded that you are enough, this is the podcast for you.