*** TRIGGER WARNING: this post mentions pregnancy loss. Please listen with care. ***It's Love Fest time! ? Today we're joined by our friends, longtime Bachelor franchise icon Ashley Spivey (Season 15, aka Brad Womack's second season) and her delightful husband Steve Hunsberger. These two have been married for over 6 years, have been dating for 10, and they're also our NYC neighbors! :) Today they join Shandy to share whether or not they would have met sans The Bachelor, what it's like to endure tremendous loss together, how they "pass the baton" between them, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, a Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that Andy describes as "very married". ? Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 35%!More Ashley:https://www.instagram.com/ashleyspiveyhttps://www.instagram.com/spiveysbookclubMore Steve:https://www.instagram.com/shunsy14Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Ashley and Steve!2:50 - How They Met8:44 - Do They Think They Would Have Ended Up Together Without The Bachelor?14:59 - First Impressions21:01 - How They Complement Each Other24:23 - How Suffering Miscarriage Affected Their Relationship34:07 - Early Hurdle40:11 - How They Fight45:55 - Any Beliefs About Relationships That Have Changed49:26 - The Newlyweds Game1:05:58 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSupport Dear Shandy: https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsSubscribe - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy