Sarah and Pilar Jhena play three rounds of "rock paper scissors" to determine who will win the vaunted role of flower girl at Cynthia's wedding. After losing in a landslide (apparently pointing to a diamond does not count?), Sarah consoles herself with the real reward, an AG kiki with Rachel Wilkerson Miller, VICE Life Deputy Editor and author of "The Art of Showing Up: How To Be There for Yourself and Your People." They discuss Rachel's now-viral piece unpacking the role of respectability politics during the Potomac altercation aftermath, what a just-unearthed video of Michael Darby means for his future on the show (and in his marriage), and the difference between accountability and shame. Much like T'Challa Samuels, this conversation soared to new heights - it's Andy's Girls, Episode 181!

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