fal·la·cy
/ˈfaləsē/
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noun
a mistaken belief, especially one based on unsound argument.
"the notion that the camera never lies is a fallacy"

LOGIC
a failure in reasoning which renders an argument invalid.
"the potential for fallacy which lies behind the notion of self-esteem"

Ask the average modern woman about relationships and it's a good bet that she will say "right now I'm focusing on myself" or something along those lines. This is an extremely popular narrative that is widely pushed and held by many women today, but does it produce the outcomes many women claim to want and desire?