Picking at an old wound will only cause it more trouble. But ignoring it when it’s acting up isn’t healthy either. Focus on the wound when you need to.If you want to do shadow work to heal, you don’t have to go out search for triggers. Things will naturally come up that send you back into this shadow self, and this is where the practice of responding instead of reacting can be so powerful. Transmute the energy when it arises and this will give you space from the trigger and begin to shift you into a new reality. This is how the real shadow work is done and where healing can begin. In the meantime, enjoy the shadows. Shadows can only exist in the presence of light, so lean into the light.Make Your Damn Bed is a real talk, daily motivation podcast to play while you make your bed* every morning. Each season is 66 days long to incorporate new healthy habits of your choosing into your daily life. Build momentum - better your life.Find content and quotes from today's episode on Instagram @MYDBpodcast(DM to sign up for our monthly newsletter)Support the Podcast here: https://anchor.fm/mydb/supportJulie Merica and the content on Make Your Damn Bed Podcast is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. All content, including text, graphics, images and information, contained or presented is for general information purposes only. This content is presented on an "as-is" basis.--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/mydb/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Get bonus content on PatreonSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/make-your-damn-bed. Our GDPR privacy policy was updated on August 8, 2022. Visit acast.com/privacy for more information.