➡️ DETAILS | Marty is an 8 on the shame-o-meter—but it completely disappears once he’s in bed. Still, he can’t figure out if he’s “normal” or pervy and weird, because no one really talked about it when he was growing up, including safer sex. He started young, in 6th grade, fooling around with a girlfriend, naked, with blowjobs, pussy worship, and public play (even Kmart) since they had no place to go. That early thrill has led to theaters, work, and even a gondola (cable car) ride, in other peoples’ apartments, and in the car, where ice-on-nipples led to the best viewpoint stop ever. We hear about his girlfriend whose mom was down with wine, weed, and whatever they wanted to do, his sudden first blowjob experience, whether or not “vanilla” has a negative connotation, and reflects on how his shame grow as he grew older—since he and his first wife (who he got pregnant at 17) had tons of experimental group sex that wasn’t particularly monogamous, but was never explicitly discussed, either. Marty shares the joy of 17 years of awesome, committed sex with his second wife, the struggles of online dating while leading a busy life at work, talks fantasies, exploring assholes (both as giver and receiver), happy ending massages, erotic photography, his experience being diagnosed with bipolar disorder in his 40’s and how that has affected his understanding of self and his sex life, a great discussion about his bi-curiosity and heteroflexibility, feelings as a self-designated small penis owner, and SO MANY hot sexy details.➡️ QUESTION | How the EFF do we use dental dams?! (PUBLIC THIS WEEK / not sponsored by Lorals but they are awesome: mylorals.com) ➡️ STATS | 61-year-old white hispanic heteroflexible male, his kinks are public sex, exhibitionism, taking nude photos of women, and dirty talk, a manager of a busy downtown restaurant from Washington State in the beautiful Pacific NW➡️ JOIN THE MISSION | Explore (y)our creativity: https://www.creation.place | play@creation.place ➡️ GET BETTERHELP | Support yourself & Sex Stories: https://www.betterhelp.com/sexstories Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sex-stories/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy