Dear Steve and Shirley, I have heard Steve Harvey and an elder in my family say that you can train a man to do anything you want him to do. Well, I have tried it and it’s not true. I have been dating a really great guy for 3 years and as time goes on, it’s becoming clear that he has an issue with contributing financially to whatever we’re doing. He tries to do sweet things for me, but he does them in his own little cheap way. It’s never up to my expectations, but I always act like I love it. He always takes shortcuts and he finds a cheaper way to get things done............

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