Sometimes when I’m talking to a woman who’s struggling in her relationship and I mention feeling desired, cherished and adored, she looks disbelieving. Sure, she wants him to stop playing video games all the time, take out the trash before it’s overflowing and pay more attention to her. Or if her relationship is in a crisis, she wants him to stop sleeping in the spare bedroom, texting another woman, or to move back home. But she can’t imagine her man being tender, looking for ways to make her life easier and coming up behind her while she’s cooking to kiss her neck. That seems completely unrealistic to her. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, we’re talking about how to use your feminine gifts in marriage so it’s not pie in the sky. My guest Tiana and her husband argued all the time: about finances, parenting, home decor, in-laws, and even things that they agreed on! But today she says "big deals" aren't such big deals anymore. Instead of arguing all the time, they are relaxed, with lighthearted teasing and laughing. She’s going to tell us what she did so you can do it too.  The Worst Advice of the Week Award winner is from a student who sought support for her relationship and got a shocking response from the counselor. I’ll let her explain in her own words.