What do you do if you can't/don't want to have intercourse, but other forms of sex are actually uncomfortable?Some Christian books tell women they should give sexual favors, because they're "simple" and take a "minimum of effort." Today Sheila Wray Gregoire and Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach from To Love, Honor and Vacuum look at the complete picture--what this should look like in a healthy relationship, and how to think about it if one of you actually is physically uncomfortable.Because, as always, sex is supposed to be MUTUAL.Some links mentioned in this podcast:All my Audio books--and the free book studies that go along with my books:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/audio-books-free-video-studies-and-more/My Boost Your Libido course!https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/boost-libido-course/Our marital rape/consent/obligation sex podcast:https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/04/podcast-marital-rape-consent/And for more discussion on this podcast, check out the post that goes along with it!https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2020/08/podcast-when-oral-sex-manual-sex-hurt