My amazing and talented wife Lisa is releasing her new book Radical Confidence, which you can preorder - and get the bonuses she’s created for you - at https://www.radicalconfidence.com. When you read this book, Lisa will teach you 10 No-BS Life Lessons to become the hero of your own life and take MASSIVE bold action to achieve your potential!How you react to situations that spark strong responses, good or bad, can feel uncontrollable and much like a knee jerk reaction. How often are you sitting with yourself to observe the emotions you experience when you’re feeling triggered? Are you creating enough distance in time to allow yourself the space to analyze your reaction to the trigger?Robert Greene is an author and psychologist that is well known and respected for his best-selling books on strategies, power, and seduction. This episode is your go to for all things Robert Greene as he delves into everything from what to do with your dark side and how to leverage that dark energy to the power of self reflection and the nature of language and non verbal languages. Robert discusses with Tom the practical ways to source motivation for real change, and how to live with the joy and bliss of being intune with self and your own nature.SHOW NOTES:0:00 | Introduction to Robert Greene0:14 | The Goal in Life for Success22:31 | Master Your Primal Nature43:39 | Train for Joy Instead of Hoping1:14:00 | Why Power is Crucial1:36:42 | Understand the Reality2:00:11 | Understand Your Environment2:21:22 | Live in the Sublime2:44:44 | Be Okay With Change3:03:01 | Overcome Your ObstaclesQUOTES:“The brain is like a landscape. It's like a landscape out in the world that you see, [...] You create that landscape yourself, you create the brain that you have, by the degree of how you're open to experience…” [21:46]“My worry is that people are so immersed in their smartphones and their technology that they don't understand people...” [27:15]“Question yourself. Stop assuming that everything you do is so brilliant and smart, and so right.” [34:21]“As people talk, and they use words to conceal what they're thinking, their bodies reveal what they're actually thinking behind the words…” [41:34]“Usually the people who think power is a dirty word are the people who are the most manipulative and passive aggressive.” [1:14:54]“I'm trying to tell people that dark side contains incredible creative energy, incredible motivating power [...] when you get up in the morning, and use it, don't be afraid of it.” [1:36:27]“We're so embedded in language that we think everything in terms of what people say, but unconsciously without even realizing it. We're continually judging people on their nonverbal behavior.” [1:39:16]“Social media, for all the good that it does makes it very hard to be self reflective.” [1:57:40]“If you can't, you know, take Brett breaks from social media, from your Instagram account, from Facebook, from Twitter, then you're a prisoner of it.” [2:17:29]“What seems to be anarchic and ugly and awful in the moment does end up serving a higher purpose, because we need dynamism in our culture, we need change.” [2:48:19]Follow Robert Greene:Website: https://www.robertgreene.co/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-greene-0294962/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/RobertGreene Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/